Clitoral Stimulation    You can stimulate your clitoris with anything that feels good. Fingers and vibrators are the most frequent choices, although there are nearly as many female masturbation techniques as there are women. One of the great tips is to start someplace other than your clitoris. There are lots of other places that will cause pleasure and get you in the mood. Once you do get there, play with different speeds, pressures, directions, and so on. There is no "right way" to stimulate your clitoris; you'll just have to experiment and see what works best for you. Once you find something that feels good, keep doing it. When it begins to feel less good, try something else.   The clitoris is "the spot" that is the major pleasure center in most women. In fact, the majority of women need stimulation of this area in order to orgasm at all. That's because the clitoris is physiologically similar to the penis. When you get aroused, the area engorges with blood and begins to swell. The difference in the size of the clitoris before and after arousal varies between "not noticeable" and "wow, look at that." However, the amount that your clitoris swells is not related how much pleasure you can receive or how easily you achieve orgasm. Like the penis of a man, the size does not relate to its ability to function.